Straight from the heart - 12

This letter is a repost of a strawberry letter from the steve harvey morning show.

Date: 01/28/2008
Subject: Hater of a Fiance

Dear Steve and gang, I am a young professional man in this big city in South Carolina. Well let's TRY to make this as short as possible. I am a 22 year old engineer who happens to be blessed with other young professional friends with whom I grew up with. One in particular friend is a 23 year old young lady. We have known each other since the 5th grade and have been close since the 7th. We have had 10 years of friendship without any sexual feelings attached because we are simply not each others type. Girls have always gravitated toward me and their boyfriends always get mad at me. I try to push off the taken girls just to avoid tension among anyone but they ignore their man and come back. Well this particular girl broke up with her ex boyfriend because of me. Months later another dude started pursuing her and her interests. Right off the bat she told him she was friends with a guy, who is me, and asked him if he would have a problem with it. He replied "absolutely not'. She went on to date the jigga boo and things were fine. He would even converse with me when we both were around. She recently moved in a house and they have a child together. He has made statements to her saying he doesn't want her being around me anymore, doesn't want me coming to the house (a house she pays half on), and doesn't want her talking to me on the phone (a phone that's in her name). Although she continues to sneak around me and talk to me, I feel completely cut off. Past female friends I had and lost never affected me like this because I trained myself to not get attached to females, but this is 10 years of long trials of friendship and believe it or not we are tied at the heart. We are so in sync with one another and click in so many ways. We basically know every secret about each other and no one makes me laugh like her. Now she is set to marry this HATER and possibly weed me out of her life completely. I just need to know if I should cut off all feelings for her before I'm cut out.