This letter is a repost of a strawberry letter from the steve harvey morning show.
Date: 01/14/2008Subject: I am too afraid to want more!
Good Morning Team, I am recently divorce from my husband for about a year. I was severely hurt during the process of my marriage. I took a year off from dating to do a lot of soul searching and to come to grips with the fact that my failed marriage was my fault (Thanks to you, Steve. The advice that you have been giving to your listeners made me realize it was my fault.). Now, to the question...I have been dating a guy for about 3 months. Right out the gate we establish the ground rules of the relationship. He said, that he dates other women and wanted to be totally honest with me about that. I told him, that I didn't have any expectations and that I'm not seeking or looking for a relationship. Ok, I know you are waiting on the problem, since the ground rules were set up front, what's the problem? Here's the problem...now he wants more. He wants to cut out all of the women in his life a see only me, and he wants me to do the same. I am totally scare to commit myself to another man and to get hurt in the end. Just give you a little back ground on the surface he's perfect. Treats me with the utmost respect and care. No, I have not broken off the cookie, because I didn't want to confuse matters considering the ground rules. Please HELP me! How do you know when it's the right time to try love again
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